February 11th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
on my point of view, Flirting isn’t just making up intimate/ sensual conversation or gestures with a guy. It can be a start of a deep friendship, maybe it can be a cue for him to open up.
Also, it can be a way for you to meet your official mate.. “Target” the right word for us girls!! haha!
Sometimes, you have to make the first move!. I’m not saying that you girls should be aggressive. try to open doors.
Remember: It’s fun to flirt, but if you expect to date or marry that guy, surely you’ll be disappointed. Seriously, if you flirt it could only last for hours and most probably, you won’t be able to talk to him again. Most of the time it happens but somehow, stories can be changed. Who knows? so you must love and enjoy every moment of it!!
1. Act presentably, guys mostly hate girls who are too noisy! it’s a total turn off. You forehead baby! you should have it rested. Smile and look approachable.
2. Body language is important, of course read his’. Is he interested in you? Do you think your 1st step works? if yes, then go on! If no.. find another target and start all over again! hahaha!
3. Catch his attention by looking to his eyes or by giving a sweet smile to him.
4. Act natural if he happens to go near or sit beside you.! Don’t act stupid. Don’t go far, don’t turn back. Or else, he’ll think that you are not interested with him! go with the flow…
5. Start the conversation. He or you may start it! Whisper for you to get his attention. you could start by whispering “how are you?” or by noticing his dress, shoes or whatever.
remember: don’t stare as if you are “starstrucked”, as what I’ve said, act naturally!!
6. Give informations about yourself, but never give a lot!! Give a chance for him to share, the moment is not all yours, you both own it.
7. Insert a humor but not too much. It’ll add a little spice to your conversation. Though destructions are everywhere, try to give your attention to him, laugh at his jokes and listen to his stories.
8. The art of touching! If you wanna go beyond verbal things. That’s going to be another story. Use your body language. Usually, guys will start touching or tapping your legs or knee, then it’ll go up to your hand. Again, act normally. If you like it, then go for it!
9. Lastly, before the end of it, close the deal. Remember, us girls should not expect beyond things. But nothing is impossible right? Flirting is fun and harmless as long as you don’t hurt other’s feelings!
if he happens to get you number and you liked it, don’t hesitate to give it to him!!
I got few tips from here!
Haha. I like it! Every girl’s guide to flirting. Ngayon, alam ko na! Wahaha.
I so wanna agree with #4. Act natural. Minsan kasi, sa mga ganyang pangyayari, naprapraning ako. Alam mo yun sis. Parang tanga lang. Ninenerbyos, na natutuwa. parang uncomfortable. EEERRR. At ang unang naiisip ko para matapos ang awkward moment ko, lalayo ako ng biglaan.
That’s why I’m so excited to read this post. Hahaha. Now I know.
Salamat sa tulong. HAHAHAHA.
So FLIRTING GURU ka na ngayon sis? HAHA. But I soo agree with your tips. It should really start with a friendship hindi yung basta ka na lang makalandi. HAHAH
Super agree din ako sa #6. Wag naman lahat eh sabihin kahit hind na tntanong. Haha. Play mysterious ng konti, db?
That’s more exciting! ?
What a cute little post and some good advise!! I love flirting it is one of my favourite pass times, lol!! Harmless fun!!
waah! i Love itt! i Love the tips.. pero ako? since i’m not a girl, i flirt so obvious! hahaha (: but if i don’t like the guy and he’s flirting.. nuh oh.. i’m making okray.. haha (:
Love! Love! Love!
Hahah. This is like, Flirting 101. We should have one in college. lol
aww thats soo cute.. kahit may bf na ako im still flirt..PERO DI NA MASHODO LOL
ANOTHER TIP:
STARE AT A GUY WHEN WALKING TAPOS WHEN U GET PAST HIM TURN UR BACK AND GIVE HIM A SMILE AND A WINK.. IT WORKS
thats how i got my boyfriend!! and his a keeper.. lol
thanks pala for visitng my site gorgeous!
ingatz
woww thanks sa mga tips ^^o err may mga mali ako ah. Yung sa #1. Minsan kasi may pagkamaingay ako lalo na pag nakatingin sya. wahaha x)
I lalalike your tips. Will try immediately. HAHAHAHAHA! =)) But I already tried doing some this week and I don’t know if I was successful but I don’t know the words ‘give up’ so I wont =)
Flirting isn’t being aggressive, it’s being assertive. HAHAHA
We don’t hurt people, we do have fun.
This post is interesting. I’ll share this with my friends. Thank you for posting this one
haha.. cool tips! i often start the conversation. rofl. chikadora kasi ako.
) kaya bigla ata natatakot. bwahahaha!!
ayos! future nurse na… flirting teacher pa. hehehe ayos to!
let me try some tomorrow. 
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Oh I love this post!
I love boys & I love flirting.
Sweet <3
LOL. This blog makes me think that you flirt. It’s fine as long as the person you’re flirting with isn’t taken right? I love #1 and #4. Single ladies should keep those tips in mind.
I should have read this before sis.. you know what this is exactly what happen to me. I didn’t act naturally when my crush stood right beside me. Stupid me, I move away from him and played hard to get so the ending he assume that I don’t like him, since then hindi nya na ako nilalapitan or tinitignan man lang
so there lesson learned!
“Act natural if he happens to go near or sit beside you.! Don’t act stupid. Don’t go far, don’t turn back. Or else, he’ll think that you are not interested with him! go with the flow…”
HAHA. Cool post! Though I’m not really interested in flirting, nakakatuwa yung article! Weee.
) Mai-try nga sometime. LOL.
i love flirting. (: i like this post a lot. future nurse na flirting teacher pa. hehehe!
-xoxo,
charchar
aha nice tips! nqu expert ah? aha tenchu.
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wow the “Start the conversation” is a bit hard to do, paminsan kasi nabubuking ako. haha.. kaya I just keep my mouth shut. haha. “Insert humor” is probably the main key to his soul, xmpre mala MELASON dba? di maganda si mhelai, pero dahil funny xa.. jason fall in love.. nice tips..
been here, done that! i remember sioco tuloy. haha… laging ganito sa laboratory namin. haha. and then, he gets my number but i never gave it to him.
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